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by Bob Reed, bbsbob@earthlink.net

A DEFINING MOMENT
Rev. Dr. Marni Harmony
September 16, 2001

from the words of Gerard Manley Hopkins:
I wake and feel the fell of dark, not day.
What hours, O what black hours we have spent
This night! What sights you, heart, saw; ways you went!
And more must, in yet longer light's delay
With witness I speak this. But where I say
Hours I mean years, mean life. And my lament
Is cries countless...

SHALOM, SHALOM, V'EIN SHALOM. Words from the prophet Jeremiah. "Peace, peace, when there is no peace." "Grant us peace, thy most precious gift, O Thou eternal source of peace," say the words from the liturgy of the Jewish Prayer Book. "Enable us to be its messenger unto the peoples of the earth." And in the words of St. Francis, "God, make me an instrument of thy peace." In this longing, today, I must believe we are all united.

In the middle of the 19th century, the great Unitarian minister William Ellery Channing cried, "Must the sword devour forever? Must force, fear, pain, always rule the world? Is the kingdom of God, the reign of truth, duty, and love never to prevail? Must the sacred name of neighbor be only a name among us? Must the divinity in our nature never be recognized with veneration? Is the earth always to steam with human blood shed by our hands, and to echo with groans wrung from hearts which violence has pierced? Can you and I, my friends, do nothing, nothing to impress a different character on the future history of our race? You say we are weak; and why weak? It is from inward defect, not from outward necessity. We are...faint within,-faint in love, and trust, and holy resolution. Inward power always comes forth, and works without....Go forth, then, friends of humanity, peaceful soldiers...and in your various relations, at home and abroad, in private life, and, if it may be, in more public spheres, give faithful utterance to your deep, solemn, irreconcilable hatred of the spirit of war."

Are we at war? I don't know. It's a word we've heard this past week, and there seems to be general agreement that we are. For now, it's apparently a war against terrorism, a frightening, faceless enemy whose ways are based in fanaticism and hatred. I do not understand references to the perpetrators as faceless cowards. Would that they were cowards and would retreat when we mobilize our might. But human beings who have worked and plotted for years to try to destroy our great nation and who are willing to die in this service are anything but cowards. They are a cold, cunning, calculating, cancerous clan who feed on the poisons of fear and hatred and envy. May their seed and their feeding trough dry up; may the people of the world come to our senses and isolate these ghosts of evil.

As I said on Tuesday night, many of us are torn between our deep commitment to nonviolence and our knowledge that hatred poisons the human spirit...and our deep, fierce anger that this has happened. An anger that is strong enough that we cannot help but have thoughts of revenge; we want to see the perpetrators-the masterminds- brought down and punished. I suppose that needs to happen. That would serve the cause of justice. But I grieve the form I fear that punishment will take.

I hope to God we will not squander our energies on revenge or retribution. Some of you will vehemently disagree with me. That's ok. The deeds are done. The horror is real. The horrific results are real. Isn't it time we learned that hatred begets hatred; violence begets violence.? Can't we decide to stop the spiral of violence now? Just refuse to perpetuate it. And pray, I mean really pray, for an end to violence. Does the world want to see an America that becomes obsessed with punishing anyone who challenges or hurts us...or might the world want to see an America that lives up to the greatness of our ideals and stands firm for freedom and understanding and peace? Shall we be obsessed with pinpointing blame or walk the much more difficult path of trying to understand cause? Does the world need us to be the source of further hatred and violence or of love and mercy? Not a naive, passive mercy that just hopes if we love enough this evil will go away. But a wise and active mercy that is clear and firm in containing the cancer.

Have the chickens, indeed come home to roost? Are we reaping what we have sown? I went back to a little book written by Dom Helder Camara in 1971 titled Spiral of Violence. In it he writes, "If there is some corner of the world which has remained peaceful, but with a peace based on injustices-the peace of a swamp with rotten matter fermenting in its depths-we may be sure that that peace is false. Violence attracts violence. Let us repeat fearlessly and ceaselessly: injustices bring revolt, either from the oppressed or from the young, determined to fight for a more just and humane world." (Pp.33-34)
Please do not hear me saying "we deserved it" or that the hijackings and attacks were justified. I am emphatically not saying that. I do not walk with Jerry Falwell or Pat Robertson. To state, as they did, that the attacks were brought on because of gays, lesbians, feminists, pagans and the ACLU is as unbelievably stupid as it is, unfortunately, believably warped and incendiary. Put these guys out to pasture, please.

But I do wonder at my own wisdom in trying to do anything but offer comfort this morning. Yet, God help me, I have to ask aloud, How many towers have we knocked down in Baghdad? What country was it that dropped the first nuclear bombs on civilians in Hiroshima and Nagasaki? What country herded Native Americans like cattle along a Trail of Tears? And were there not people in this country who cheered when we bombed Iraq and spoke of "winning" a war that killed civilians and devastated an entire ecosystem? Wittingly or not, we are far from innocents in creating this culture of hate in the world. I stand utterly incredulous when I hear people ask, "How could anyone hate us this much? Or why?" Where have these people been?

Is our true greatness-and I believe this is a great nation-based on the power to meet attack with attack or might it be our true greatness to model for the world the ability to take our justifiable rage and horror and transform them into the strength to stand against violence of any kind? Might that stand not signal to the world that it is time to end the cycle of violence that everyone of good heart-and that's most people, my dear ones-longs for so desperately right now? I understand that we must protect ourselves against the very real and present danger of further terrorist attacks. I understand and reluctantly accept that we must figure out a strong response that will undoubtedly involve loss of life. But I wonder what would happen if the US, along with the sustained and necessary military strategizing, were to stand up TOMORROW and say to the world that we sincerely and deeply regret our arrogance, our insensitivity, our blindness to past wrongs wrought by our misguided imperialism? If nothing more, I wager a major blow would be dealt to the worldwide anti-American sentiment.

For people of my age coterie, the assassinations of John and Robert Kennedy and Martin Luther King, Jr. were defining moments in our lives-that is to say, events that anchor our whole perspective on life. I know where I was and who was with me, and I still carry the deep pain and disillusionment in my heart. For a younger group, the explosion of the Challenger was a similar defining moment. One of my first thoughts upon hearing of Tuesday's unimaginably horrific events was that the day would become a defining moment for a new generation. But as I have sat and mourned and let the reality of the events sink in, I realize it will be a defining moment for all of us. All of us. The dead and the injured and their families are far from the only victims of this week's terrible events. The circle is wide enough to include all of us in this country; all of us, I think, who are citizens of this planet. We are all wounded for the rest of our lives. We will carry the particulars of this lived trauma in our bones from now on. We are a nation, and indeed a world, that has been robbed of our most basic sense of security. We are, as some commentators have said, living in a new country...indeed a new world.

There is a particular and unique personal pain that most of us here have been spared: we did not lose a partner or mother or father or child or co-worker or neighbor in this carnage. While we must hold in our hearts and prayers the unspeakable and unique individual human losses, it is important to say that every single one of us is affected by and a victim of this evil. No one of any conscience remains untouched.

Even as we grieve, even as we try to make sense of the senseless, please remember to notice the moments of heroism and beauty. It is a remarkable theological truth-out of the ashes of evil WILL rise the spirit of beauty and truth. We have seen it already. Think of those on Flight 93 who had the presence of mind and greatness of spirit --in the face of terror and the near certain knowledge of their own death-to make a successful effort to thwart the hijackers from making another hit on a vital part of our country. Remember the police and fire personnel who rushed into the first WTC tower in an effort to help, only to lose their lives as the tower collapsed. Hold up the individuals who, in the darkest hours of grief, conveyed information from phone calls from loved ones to officials that has helped to track down the hijackers. And hold up now the thousands upon thousands of persons who will be actively involved in the healing and rebuilding.

I pray that what also arises out of the ashes is a deep humility. Humility is utterly and uncompromisingly necessary in a worthy world leader. There are good reasons to be proud to be an American; but let our pride be tempered with a true understanding of our UU Seventh Principle--that we really are interdependent. We are not better because we're bigger; we do not have the right to do whatever we want to serve our own interests without thinking of the consequences for other peoples and nations. We are not great because we're wealthy; we are only great as we engage in actions that reflect our founding principles. Let us admit that we do not always do that. Let us admit that we fall short of our ideals. Let us admit that there are still things this 225 year old country needs to learn.

We all want to do something. The somethings we can do are both small and great. Be together. Comfort one another. Life is too short for hate; please let it go. Take this opportunity to put pettiness in perspective. Pray. Pray for everyone. Pray especially that our leaders may somehow find or stumble into the wisest course of action. Pray for those planning future terrorist actions that they may find their way home to their hearts. And pray for the innocents-present and future-of this "war" on terrorism.

Yesterday morning, my heart broke yet again reading of the climate of fear that is now so pervasive in the lives of people in places like Afghanistan. A teacher was quoted as saying, "We have suffered so much. Every night so many children go to bed hungry...What do we have to live for? Let the rockets come and set this whole country on fire once and for all." God, what despair. Please open your heart to the reality of this kind of suffering. Challenge bigotry. Patronize Arab and Muslim businesses. If you're in the market, please don't sell this week unless you also buy. If you need a concrete act, give blood. But remember that our nation needs spirit infusions as well as blood transfusions. Now, as perhaps never before, we must initiate-yes, initiate--conversations with our neighbors about what we, as Unitarian Universalists, stand for. Please learn our Seven Principles-memorize them. Do not miss an opportunity to talk about them and be guided to action by them. We must teach our children and our world, as we recite every Sunday, that hatred destroys the human spirit. We must teach our children and our world that violence is wrong. That violence is not an acceptable way of dealing with either conflict or frustration. Violence is fast; it's ugly; it's chaotic; it's frightening. We must help others truly understand what we know to be true: that the world we share is an utterly interdependent world; that what hurts one hurts all. Don't be paralyzed by fear, even if you're scared-and we are all scared. Go inside and find the fearlessness that may be the antidote to terrorism. And deepen and expand the love that is the only antidote I know to hate and fear. Strengthen your own equanimity and tolerance for not knowing what to do. Yet at the same time, remember that holding someone's hand IS doing something. Be gentle with others and with yourself for our wildly fluctuating emotions-we are all in grief. And while not being in denial about the true fragility of our situation right now, believe that we can and will find actions that cause the least further destruction and suffering.

With all my heart I want to offer a hopeful word this morning. And yet the best I can do is to stand with you in shared horror and pain. The little bit of hope I cling to is that there are so many others as shocked and confused and hurt as we are. Maybe together we can dedicate ourselves to the work necessary to assure that it is more than just talk to speak of the preciousness of each child in our world. Maybe we will let this event speak to us about the need to change the conditions whereby radical evil, born of fear and misunderstanding and hatred, can arise. Maybe it will be this event that sears into our consciousness the resolve that the human community really must stand together or fall apart. Maybe it will be this horror that will turn us around. May it be so.
AMEN, SHALOM, OM SHANTI, BLESSED BE.