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           Message from the District Executive Florida Congregations and links Consultation on Youth Task Force  
            
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       A DEFINING MOMENT 
      Rev. Dr. Marni Harmony September 16, 2001 from the words of Gerard Manley Hopkins:  SHALOM, SHALOM, V'EIN SHALOM. Words from the prophet Jeremiah. "Peace, 
        peace, when there is no peace." "Grant us peace, thy most precious 
        gift, O Thou eternal source of peace," say the words from the liturgy 
        of the Jewish Prayer Book. "Enable us to be its messenger unto the 
        peoples of the earth." And in the words of St. Francis, "God, 
        make me an instrument of thy peace." In this longing, today, I must 
        believe we are all united. In the middle of the 19th century, the great Unitarian minister William 
        Ellery Channing cried, "Must the sword devour forever? Must force, 
        fear, pain, always rule the world? Is the kingdom of God, the reign of 
        truth, duty, and love never to prevail? Must the sacred name of neighbor 
        be only a name among us? Must the divinity in our nature never be recognized 
        with veneration? Is the earth always to steam with human blood shed by 
        our hands, and to echo with groans wrung from hearts which violence has 
        pierced? Can you and I, my friends, do nothing, nothing to impress a different 
        character on the future history of our race? You say we are weak; and 
        why weak? It is from inward defect, not from outward necessity. We are...faint 
        within,-faint in love, and trust, and holy resolution. Inward power always 
        comes forth, and works without....Go forth, then, friends of humanity, 
        peaceful soldiers...and in your various relations, at home and abroad, 
        in private life, and, if it may be, in more public spheres, give faithful 
        utterance to your deep, solemn, irreconcilable hatred of the spirit of 
        war." Are we at war? I don't know. It's a word we've heard this past week, 
        and there seems to be general agreement that we are. For now, it's apparently 
        a war against terrorism, a frightening, faceless enemy whose ways are 
        based in fanaticism and hatred. I do not understand references to the 
        perpetrators as faceless cowards. Would that they were cowards and would 
        retreat when we mobilize our might. But human beings who have worked and 
        plotted for years to try to destroy our great nation and who are willing 
        to die in this service are anything but cowards. They are a cold, cunning, 
        calculating, cancerous clan who feed on the poisons of fear and hatred 
        and envy. May their seed and their feeding trough dry up; may the people 
        of the world come to our senses and isolate these ghosts of evil. As I said on Tuesday night, many of us are torn between our deep commitment 
        to nonviolence and our knowledge that hatred poisons the human spirit...and 
        our deep, fierce anger that this has happened. An anger that is strong 
        enough that we cannot help but have thoughts of revenge; we want to see 
        the perpetrators-the masterminds- brought down and punished. I suppose 
        that needs to happen. That would serve the cause of justice. But I grieve 
        the form I fear that punishment will take. I hope to God we will not squander our energies on revenge or retribution. 
        Some of you will vehemently disagree with me. That's ok. The deeds are 
        done. The horror is real. The horrific results are real. Isn't it time 
        we learned that hatred begets hatred; violence begets violence.? Can't 
        we decide to stop the spiral of violence now? Just refuse to perpetuate 
        it. And pray, I mean really pray, for an end to violence. Does the world 
        want to see an America that becomes obsessed with punishing anyone who 
        challenges or hurts us...or might the world want to see an America that 
        lives up to the greatness of our ideals and stands firm for freedom and 
        understanding and peace? Shall we be obsessed with pinpointing blame or 
        walk the much more difficult path of trying to understand cause? Does 
        the world need us to be the source of further hatred and violence or of 
        love and mercy? Not a naive, passive mercy that just hopes if we love 
        enough this evil will go away. But a wise and active mercy that is clear 
        and firm in containing the cancer.  Have the chickens, indeed come home to roost? Are we reaping what we 
        have sown? I went back to a little book written by Dom Helder Camara in 
        1971 titled Spiral of Violence. In it he writes, "If there is some 
        corner of the world which has remained peaceful, but with a peace based 
        on injustices-the peace of a swamp with rotten matter fermenting in its 
        depths-we may be sure that that peace is false. Violence attracts violence. 
        Let us repeat fearlessly and ceaselessly: injustices bring revolt, either 
        from the oppressed or from the young, determined to fight for a more just 
        and humane world." (Pp.33-34) But I do wonder at my own wisdom in trying to do anything but offer comfort 
        this morning. Yet, God help me, I have to ask aloud, How many towers have 
        we knocked down in Baghdad? What country was it that dropped the first 
        nuclear bombs on civilians in Hiroshima and Nagasaki? What country herded 
        Native Americans like cattle along a Trail of Tears? And were there not 
        people in this country who cheered when we bombed Iraq and spoke of "winning" 
        a war that killed civilians and devastated an entire ecosystem? Wittingly 
        or not, we are far from innocents in creating this culture of hate in 
        the world. I stand utterly incredulous when I hear people ask, "How 
        could anyone hate us this much? Or why?" Where have these people 
        been? Is our true greatness-and I believe this is a great nation-based on the 
        power to meet attack with attack or might it be our true greatness to 
        model for the world the ability to take our justifiable rage and horror 
        and transform them into the strength to stand against violence of any 
        kind? Might that stand not signal to the world that it is time to end 
        the cycle of violence that everyone of good heart-and that's most people, 
        my dear ones-longs for so desperately right now? I understand that we 
        must protect ourselves against the very real and present danger of further 
        terrorist attacks. I understand and reluctantly accept that we must figure 
        out a strong response that will undoubtedly involve loss of life. But 
        I wonder what would happen if the US, along with the sustained and necessary 
        military strategizing, were to stand up TOMORROW and say to the world 
        that we sincerely and deeply regret our arrogance, our insensitivity, 
        our blindness to past wrongs wrought by our misguided imperialism? If 
        nothing more, I wager a major blow would be dealt to the worldwide anti-American 
        sentiment. For people of my age coterie, the assassinations of John and Robert Kennedy 
        and Martin Luther King, Jr. were defining moments in our lives-that is 
        to say, events that anchor our whole perspective on life. I know where 
        I was and who was with me, and I still carry the deep pain and disillusionment 
        in my heart. For a younger group, the explosion of the Challenger was 
        a similar defining moment. One of my first thoughts upon hearing of Tuesday's 
        unimaginably horrific events was that the day would become a defining 
        moment for a new generation. But as I have sat and mourned and let the 
        reality of the events sink in, I realize it will be a defining moment 
        for all of us. All of us. The dead and the injured and their families 
        are far from the only victims of this week's terrible events. The circle 
        is wide enough to include all of us in this country; all of us, I think, 
        who are citizens of this planet. We are all wounded for the rest of our 
        lives. We will carry the particulars of this lived trauma in our bones 
        from now on. We are a nation, and indeed a world, that has been robbed 
        of our most basic sense of security. We are, as some commentators have 
        said, living in a new country...indeed a new world. There is a particular and unique personal pain that most of us here have 
        been spared: we did not lose a partner or mother or father or child or 
        co-worker or neighbor in this carnage. While we must hold in our hearts 
        and prayers the unspeakable and unique individual human losses, it is 
        important to say that every single one of us is affected by and a victim 
        of this evil. No one of any conscience remains untouched. Even as we grieve, even as we try to make sense of the senseless, please 
        remember to notice the moments of heroism and beauty. It is a remarkable 
        theological truth-out of the ashes of evil WILL rise the spirit of beauty 
        and truth. We have seen it already. Think of those on Flight 93 who had 
        the presence of mind and greatness of spirit --in the face of terror and 
        the near certain knowledge of their own death-to make a successful effort 
        to thwart the hijackers from making another hit on a vital part of our 
        country. Remember the police and fire personnel who rushed into the first 
        WTC tower in an effort to help, only to lose their lives as the tower 
        collapsed. Hold up the individuals who, in the darkest hours of grief, 
        conveyed information from phone calls from loved ones to officials that 
        has helped to track down the hijackers. And hold up now the thousands 
        upon thousands of persons who will be actively involved in the healing 
        and rebuilding. I pray that what also arises out of the ashes is a deep humility. Humility 
        is utterly and uncompromisingly necessary in a worthy world leader. There 
        are good reasons to be proud to be an American; but let our pride be tempered 
        with a true understanding of our UU Seventh Principle--that we really 
        are interdependent. We are not better because we're bigger; we do not 
        have the right to do whatever we want to serve our own interests without 
        thinking of the consequences for other peoples and nations. We are not 
        great because we're wealthy; we are only great as we engage in actions 
        that reflect our founding principles. Let us admit that we do not always 
        do that. Let us admit that we fall short of our ideals. Let us admit that 
        there are still things this 225 year old country needs to learn. We all want to do something. The somethings we can do are both small and great. Be together. Comfort one another. Life is too short for hate; please let it go. Take this opportunity to put pettiness in perspective. Pray. Pray for everyone. Pray especially that our leaders may somehow find or stumble into the wisest course of action. Pray for those planning future terrorist actions that they may find their way home to their hearts. And pray for the innocents-present and future-of this "war" on terrorism. Yesterday morning, my heart broke yet again reading of the climate of 
        fear that is now so pervasive in the lives of people in places like Afghanistan. 
        A teacher was quoted as saying, "We have suffered so much. Every 
        night so many children go to bed hungry...What do we have to live for? 
        Let the rockets come and set this whole country on fire once and for all." 
        God, what despair. Please open your heart to the reality of this kind 
        of suffering. Challenge bigotry. Patronize Arab and Muslim businesses. 
        If you're in the market, please don't sell this week unless you also buy. 
        If you need a concrete act, give blood. But remember that our nation needs 
        spirit infusions as well as blood transfusions. Now, as perhaps never 
        before, we must initiate-yes, initiate--conversations with our neighbors 
        about what we, as Unitarian Universalists, stand for. Please learn our 
        Seven Principles-memorize them. Do not miss an opportunity to talk about 
        them and be guided to action by them. We must teach our children and our 
        world, as we recite every Sunday, that hatred destroys the human spirit. 
        We must teach our children and our world that violence is wrong. That 
        violence is not an acceptable way of dealing with either conflict or frustration. 
        Violence is fast; it's ugly; it's chaotic; it's frightening. We must help 
        others truly understand what we know to be true: that the world we share 
        is an utterly interdependent world; that what hurts one hurts all. Don't 
        be paralyzed by fear, even if you're scared-and we are all scared. Go 
        inside and find the fearlessness that may be the antidote to terrorism. 
        And deepen and expand the love that is the only antidote I know to hate 
        and fear. Strengthen your own equanimity and tolerance for not knowing 
        what to do. Yet at the same time, remember that holding someone's hand 
        IS doing something. Be gentle with others and with yourself for our wildly 
        fluctuating emotions-we are all in grief. And while not being in denial 
        about the true fragility of our situation right now, believe that we can 
        and will find actions that cause the least further destruction and suffering. 
         With all my heart I want to offer a hopeful word this morning. And yet 
        the best I can do is to stand with you in shared horror and pain. The 
        little bit of hope I cling to is that there are so many others as shocked 
        and confused and hurt as we are. Maybe together we can dedicate ourselves 
        to the work necessary to assure that it is more than just talk to speak 
        of the preciousness of each child in our world. Maybe we will let this 
        event speak to us about the need to change the conditions whereby radical 
        evil, born of fear and misunderstanding and hatred, can arise. Maybe it 
        will be this event that sears into our consciousness the resolve that 
        the human community really must stand together or fall apart. Maybe it 
        will be this horror that will turn us around. May it be so.   |